Why shouldn’t you have some of that too? Not to even the score, but to feel like you’re an equal partner in this marriage and, as such, entitled to equal terms, equal treatment, and equal benefits.Īnd it doesn’t sound like you two were on the same page when it came to what opening your relationship entailed. In addition to pussy, she’s getting variety, adventure, unique experiences, new relationship energy, and two overnights a week. While she’s getting one very specific need met outside your relationship-admittedly a need you can’t meet-she’s getting a lot more than that. But as your wife is demonstrating, HA, it’s not just pussy she’s getting elsewhere. Since you’re straight and can get pussy at home (when that pussy is at home), you’re not entitled to the same allowance. Since she’s bi and can’t get pussy at home, the reasoning goes, she should be allowed to get pussy elsewhere. Your wife isn’t the first person to come out as bisexual after making a monogamous commitment to an opposite-sex partner and then ask for permission to sleep with other people-without wanting to extend the same permission to their straight spouse. Are one-sided open relationships something that can work? Are my feelings unjustified and what can I do to better deal with them? The logic used when we talked about a one-sided open relationship was that I can't satisfy the female side she desires. But since I’m hetero, I don't have an “unfulfilled” side. I love my wife very much and want to support her in this. She has that “new relationship energy” going and talks about her girlfriend all the time. Aside from the jealousy, I feel like I am not a priority. I'm hoping my feelings get better with time. Besides this, our marriage is great. I get jealous and sick to my stomach when she is over there. She stays at her girlfriend’s place one to two nights a week. When we agreed to this, I was naive and figured anything she experienced would be purely sexual and nothing more. She recently caught feelings and now has a girlfriend.
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I’m super proud of her for coming out and wanted her to feel fulfilled. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to females only, so she could explore her bisexual side.
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Straight guy here in a one-sided open relationship.